Open Door

I originally attended the then "Mary College" in 1982 through 1985; I left just 4 courses short of my bachelor’s degree to pursue a career with a national company. I have always regretted that I did not finish my studies, but always felt that when the time was right, there would be an open door. I believe this not only from a biblical perspective, but from a strong memory I had while on campus in the 1980's and that was the 'open door' approach Sister Thomas Welder always had for students, faculty, visitors, alumni, etc. In fact her office used to be in the corner across from the building that held the cafeteria – so practically every student walked by her office door everyday; which was always open – no secretary office blocking access or a closed door – it was always open and when Sister Thomas was there – she would remember practically everyone and would call out his or her name as they were running off to class. This openness and approachability always stayed in my heart and mind and has endeared me to the University of Mary to this day.

In early 2006, the memory of this open door policy and opportunity to go back and complete unfinished business was tugging at my heart – so I knocked and the door was opened. I applied for re-admission some 21 years later and was received with the same welcome and warmth I felt when I was on campus in 1982.

By the end of 2006, I completed my Bachelors of Arts degree in Business Administration, minor in theology and even attended the long awaited graduation ceremony in 2007 with my then 5 year old daughter (Lily) and incredibly supportive wife (Delilah). I had also begun my journey towards completing a MBA with the University of Mary in January 2007. What a joy it was to walk across the stage and receive a diploma – some 21 years in the waiting – and having it handed to me by Sister Thomas – the person who planted the seed and kept the door open for me.

In May 2009, I once again was able to walk across the stage and get my second degree from the University of Mary and this time it had special meaning for me – saying thank you to a retiring President and life-long friend, Sister Thomas Welder. This time, I garnered my MBA in Health Care and my family was once again with me to share the event.

I am forever grateful for the opportunity to come back and am thankful for the open door approachability of the University and its President and incredible staff and faculty. I now have completed one of my life long dreams and will continue in my life's journey believing: "It is never too late".

The University of Mary is more than a diploma – the spirit of the University has changed my life forever and now has challenged me to be a servant leader – something I humbly accept and will do my best to fulfill as I continue on achieving more dreams.

Congratulations on 50 years University of Mary and thanks for leaving the door open all these years....

Harold Barnes
Attended 82-85, BA 2006, MBA 2008